The Tipping Point: Amber M.'s Take

by Amber M. January 15, 2009 12:38 PM

First off, Kayla and I were arguing over her using Amber's and my tip towards her portion of the bill. It was not $2 either. We were going to leave $4 on a $60 tab after the server had bought us drinks and appetizers. If Kayla couldn't pay for her dinner then she shouldn't be ordering half the menu. Amber and I ended up covering the difference after Kayla threw a fit. We asked her to drop it so we could go to the next bar and have a fun night. Kayla was the one who didn't drop it. She was sulking in the corner of the bar and throwing a little temper tantrum. All I wanted to do was have a good time so I kept getting her shots and fed into her tantrum by trying to cheer her up.

Finally, she dropped it and bought me a drink and made sure to give the bartender a generous tip. As we left I tried to explain the concept that over-tipping one person doesn't make up for under-tipping the first. She started sulking and walking behind me at that point. I was sick of her always throwing a fit when she didn't get her way. What I didn't understand at the time was that I was probably embarrassing her. I was trying to get her to see my point and stop being a baby and that is what led to the fighting in the car. We were arguing and we BOTH were not listening to each other. That is where it all went sour. She wanted me to stop talking to her and I didn't. In turn, she started hitting me. I was trying to grab her arms to get her to stop but she wouldn't. Amber was freaking out so I asked her to pull over so we could finish it. I really didn't want to fight her, but I was sick of her always walking all over me. At some point you just need to stand up for yourself. When I got out she put her hands on me first again and then kicked me first again. I am not innocent and I realize now that I should've just dropped it. I was drunk and all I could think about was defending myself. I was in no way trying to get her kicked out of the house but I was sick of her attitude and for her always blowing up over nothing.

As for the fight in the bathroom in episode 4, it started because Amber opened the door and it bumped into a girl. The girl really didn't even care. Her friend, however, was pissed. She yelled at Amber for hitting her friend so Amber said she was sorry. Then the girl continued to tell Amber that she could've hurt her friend. Amber said, "It was a good thing she wasn't hurt." The girl got offended by that comment and got in Amber's face. Amber said something like, "I wouldn't do that. You don't know who we are."

At that point I was like: Sh*t! Amber is digging her hole deeper so I pulled her into a bathroom stall. The girls were screaming and banging on our bathroom door. Amber was pretty smart and wanted to stay in the bathroom but I opened the door and that's when they grabbed my throat and pushed me to one side of the bathroom. Then the others pushed Amber to another side. I didn't even realize they grabbed me by the neck and I just remember trying to save Amber's a$$ and I grabbed her and pulled her out of the bathroom.

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