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The Best and Worst of the Big Love Series Finale

After five seasons, Big Love bowed out for good last night with a shocking twist, a few final signature Bill Paxton bad acting moments (for good measure), and a mostly happy ending. The series finale was like this show has always been -- uneven, at times brilliant, other times overly wacky -- and though it wasn't perfect, it was at least a satisfying send-off for all in the Henrickson marriage. Actually, make that extremely satisfying for one member in particular.

Best: Barb's Blessing
Many people probably found this to be a cop-out, with Bill only accepting Barb's priesthood appropriateness on his deathbed -- out of desperation -- but for me, it was a hugely moving moment. And besides that, it was true to character. When has Bill Henrickson ever responded to anything that makes him uncomfortable without the consequences for himself being dire?

Worst: Bill's Heroic Moment
I don't blindly hate Bill, as easy as it is to do so. I've always found him to be a flawed, misguided and tremendously selfish person, but also a fundamentally good one, on many levels. But the "inspirational" scene where his polygamy legalization bill has stirred the hearts of hundreds of "oppressed" and "persecuted" polygamists so much that they drive for hours to be in the presence of the great Bill Henrickson was such an oversimplified validation of The Principle and everything awful about Bill (his ego, his self-righteousness, his narrow-mindedness, his condescension -- I could go on) that it almost marred the entire finale. The Principle promotes an inherently misogynistic and destructive form of slavery. I would think at this point in the series we wouldn't be celebrating it or anyone who supports it, but that scene would strongly suggest otherwise.

Best: No Time Wasted on an Alby Conclusion
It was strange to exclude Alby from the finale, sure, but it was also a blessing. He's long been one of the most over-the-top albatrosses to the show's credibility and I honestly didn't need any closure from his crazy ass.

Worst: Barb Comes Back to the Fold
Barb's change of heart mid-baptism was a predictable and artificial moment in addition to how disappointing it was. The fact that Barb ends this series with any power at all only because her husband granted it to her is beneath her as a character and beneath the viewing audience, who has rooted for her self-actualization for five years.

Best: Nicki's Lines
Nicki's always been my favorite, mostly because she'd be the one I would be if I were forced into some nightmare polygamist structure, and I was thrilled that she had a series of some of her best one-liners ever last night. "Margene without borders," "I'm spiteful, I'm jealous, I'm mean. No, I really am," and the plain and direct "It's all your fault" were tremendously satisfying Nicki moments. Chloe Sevigny may not be the best actress, but she's definitely the best at being Nicki Grant.

Worst: The Off-Screen Shooting
Again, I don't blindly hate Bill. But if he's going to die as a direct result of flippantly disregarding someone's serious emotional issues as he so often did to nearly every character who has ever been on this show, I want the satisfaction of seeing those bullets go into his body. Why the show chose to have them only heard off-screen is a sad mystery.

Best: The Convertible Scene
It was beautifully shot, with all three women enjoying a musical moment of freedom together (the kids were watching themselves, I guess), but it was also great as a snapshot of them boiled down as individuals, with Barb asserting her independence, Nicki trying to find something to be ashamed of in the experience, and Marge trying to change the subject. And free of Bill, you finally saw how that dynamic could form a functional family for once.

Best: They're Finally Free of Him
The epilogue had its cheesy elements -- ghost Bill, everyone creepily mentioning how all the babies look like Bill, everyone constantly referencing King Bill, Bill, Bill in general -- but it was still wonderful. I can't help it. Barb's leading her own church, Marge is free to pursue her charity work abroad and Nicki's comfortably wearing an outfit that exposes her shoulders. Would such progress have ever happened with Bill around? Not to mention the fact that no one's trying to kill, jail or blackmail them for once. Life without Bill Henrickson is good.

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14 Comments

March 21, 2011 11:25 AM
Uncle Igmar
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Some how I think I'm glad that the closest I came to this show was through Season 4 of House hen he referred o one of his new recruits as "Big Love" due to his simply being a Mormon.

March 21, 2011 11:33 AM
joeym
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I think it is a misreading to say that Bill had his conversion on his deathbed. It seemed very clear to me that his vision in the church (inspired by Barb's return to the fold) created the intention to make women priesthood holders in his own church. That is what he was so wound up about and writing about in his yellow legal pad on the patio behind the house. There is no way that the church would have given Barb the priesthood just on her word (and the word of the other two sister wives) that he asked for her blessing as he died. They went along because Bill had already written it down. And people would have believed it was divinely inspired because "everybody was talking" about how something clearly happened to him during the service in the church.

March 21, 2011 11:37 AM
jeff check
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I have watched all 5 seasons and enjoyed every one.. yes, Bill was a jerk - but what great leader is Mr. nice? Barb was even more self interested than Bill, at the last second she figured that out.

Bill was a pillar of good morality, something we need to see more of on TV.

March 21, 2011 11:42 AM
laade
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Joeym,

THanks for the enlightenment. I was confused about the vision. Now it makes sense since Barb said in the last scene "your father made it possible"

March 21, 2011 11:47 AM
nhc
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I disagree with you on Bill and the heroic moment (and on Bill in general)......Bill's biggest flaw is the object of his faith - "the principle" - he's 100% sold out to a deeply flawed, cultish idea. And it's flawed for all the reasons you mentioned.

The show makes it very clear that polygamy puts everyone in it on a destructive path. The 480 people that showed up are all on that path - and we pity them.

The scene doesn't celebrate polygamy. It celebrates Bill's faith. The creators of Big Love have pointed out very accurately throughout the five year run that the "true" Mormons (who live according to their book) are polygamists.

The Modern day Mormon church denounced the principle - they're the one's who sold out in order to assimilate - Utah would not have achieved state-hood if they didn't.

Bill is a hero because he's committed unflinchingly to what he believes is right. We admire him, even though we know that he's the ultimate tragic hero - his path can't end well. We knew that in the series' first episode.

March 21, 2011 12:20 PM
Sue
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Let's face it- we knew SOMEONE was going to shoot Bill; it's just a surprise that even Carl owned a gun in that town; (frankly, a-la- the tv show Dallas)I was more surprised it wasn't Cara Lynn or Greg (her teacher) that didn't fire the shots. And who would have thought how BLISSFUL life looks WITHOUT Bill (tee hee). People come back (Sara), others secure their love (Ben), some find sanity (Margene) some stop insulting absolutely everyone at all times (Nikki). Glad most items were wrapped up, but would have liked to see a glimpse of other minor characters (who could have been squeezed into the Easter service scene) like Joey and his wife, Don AND the wife he has left, and Tancy/Teeny (why not just kill her in a car crash last season- sheesh!) No movie upcoming, huh?

March 21, 2011 12:55 PM
ebm
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I just can't stop wondering whatever happened to the Home Plus stores?

March 21, 2011 1:07 PM
Follower of Jesus
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replied to comment from jeff check

Jesus was a perfect leader and was always refreshing. (Matt. 11:28-30) He expects his true followers to be the same.

March 21, 2011 1:49 PM
quincy
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It's such a great show all around, but predictable series finale scenes. As soon as Bill's neighbor starting crossing the street, I knew and shouted out at tv "shoot him, shoot him!", I find Bill so unlikeable and yes, those women are free!

March 21, 2011 2:34 PM
DC
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This ending seemed American Beauty-esque to me. It was sad but profound and ironic that a wacked-out neighbor killed him being that Bill had so many enemies out to get him. I did not hate Bill like all the others. I hated it that Barb seem to want out. What was beautiful about all of them was that they were a devoted family (this includes Bill). They all belonged together.

March 21, 2011 5:53 PM
DB
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I want to know what happened to the UEB's $200 million.

And I expected Nikki to go after it as soon as her mother was released from jail.

March 21, 2011 11:44 PM
Natalie
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I liked when Nicki suggested Barb name her car "In your face." Also, Adaleen's one woman protest for Albie, complete with sign.

March 22, 2011 4:59 PM
Nick Manning
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I loved the finale, but the last season just seemed rushed to me. I remember in the End of Days the producer said they can end the story in 20 episodes or 10; they of course went with 10. It seemed like there was also a lot of pork, good and bad trimmed from the show. Mostly that’s good, but when you have four years with them you kind of miss the stuff that was trimmed out
Why get rid of the casino? Getting it was the main subplot of season three and Barb running it was one of the main subplots of season four. Plus in season four I thought there was a lot of sexual chemistry between Barb and Adam Beach character. With Barb wanting independence, they could have built on that.
Bill’s brother Joey and his wife Wanda got “Judyed.” For all we know Joey is still in Mexico and Wanda is in the nuthouse.
No one seemed to miss JJ and his first wife other then Cara Lynn? No police were involved?
Why get rid of Anna? And what happened to her and Bill’s kid? For all we know she is in Serbia and their kid knows nothing about Bill or where he can from.
What happened to Bill’s dad after his mom died, no police involved?
What happened to Home Plus? Do they still have it?
I liked that Ben and Heather are married but that was awfully a quick courtship, engagement and marriage.
I don’t know a lot of questions from me. I would have liked the show to end it in 20 episodes and not the 10 they did.

March 23, 2011 8:58 AM
Jake
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What ever became of Rhonda? They made a big to do about her return and needing money and all. And then they put her right back on the bus back to Vegas.(And that baby that played her kid was butt ugly.)

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